God, i'm starting my day with writing such heavy topic, but whatever....
so, i have this friend, a guy who runs away from his house. guess why? yea, he had a fight with his mother.
not a major surprise.
always the same matters:
why parents (seemingly) cant understand us?
why cant they just leave us alone?
why wont they support us whatsoever?
why are they (seemingly) blocking us away from our dreams?
because...
THEY ARE PARENTS!!
thats what they do!
see, as a newcomer in the maturehood, i realize one thing, the older you get, the more experience you have.
think of our younger brother or sister, do they know as much as we do? mostly, no.
except your bro or sis is a kind of super smart kid, thats a totally different case.
so the point is, our parents know more than us. they've seen a lot more than us.
as a matter of fact, they were once young just like us! and we've never been as old as they are, right?
so they know exactly what is going on in our mind. moreoverly, we're their children, so we're 80% alike to them.
they just dont want us to make the same mistake just as they did. they are PROTECTING US!
and we see it as, what? silly rules they made up themselves?
dont be stupid.
dont blame them for being protective cause thats an instinct. even cats do the same.
dont blame them for being hard on you cause they do it out of love.
dont blame them for confronting and embarass you in front of your friends cause otherwise, you wont listen to them.
dont blame them for small pocketmoney, cause you dont know just how hard they work for it.
dont blame them for not buying you things you want so bad right away, cause they dont want you to be a sad spoiled kid.
dont blame them for being angry at your bad grades cause they are expecting the best from you.
dont.ever. blame them for being your parents, cause believe it or not, they've never once regretted having you as their kid!!!!
so, i have this friend, a guy who runs away from his house. guess why? yea, he had a fight with his mother.
not a major surprise.
always the same matters:
why parents (seemingly) cant understand us?
why cant they just leave us alone?
why wont they support us whatsoever?
why are they (seemingly) blocking us away from our dreams?
because...
THEY ARE PARENTS!!
thats what they do!
see, as a newcomer in the maturehood, i realize one thing, the older you get, the more experience you have.
think of our younger brother or sister, do they know as much as we do? mostly, no.
except your bro or sis is a kind of super smart kid, thats a totally different case.
so the point is, our parents know more than us. they've seen a lot more than us.
as a matter of fact, they were once young just like us! and we've never been as old as they are, right?
so they know exactly what is going on in our mind. moreoverly, we're their children, so we're 80% alike to them.
they just dont want us to make the same mistake just as they did. they are PROTECTING US!
and we see it as, what? silly rules they made up themselves?
dont be stupid.
dont blame them for being protective cause thats an instinct. even cats do the same.
dont blame them for being hard on you cause they do it out of love.
dont blame them for confronting and embarass you in front of your friends cause otherwise, you wont listen to them.
dont blame them for small pocketmoney, cause you dont know just how hard they work for it.
dont blame them for not buying you things you want so bad right away, cause they dont want you to be a sad spoiled kid.
dont blame them for being angry at your bad grades cause they are expecting the best from you.
dont.ever. blame them for being your parents, cause believe it or not, they've never once regretted having you as their kid!!!!
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